Ok, so my concert is tonight and I am super geeked!! and here is a list of htings t not say to me or any other pregnant woman. Becuase truthfully it is simply not encouraging, and at this stage of the process your inner doubt and fear comes to the surface and the comments that are not 100% positive simply feed into that. That just doesn't work for me.
- "my baby was in the hospital for weeks." (thanks for that)
- "I loved being pregnant but i don't want any more kids" (ok awsome!)
- " I hope your ready" (well either way theres no turning back!)
- " your face is a little yellow...are you having a boy?" (welli think i am having a boy but either way why did you have to tell me i look like crap today)
- " Your so cute" (ok so this one isn't bad but baby's are cute not big fat ugly yellow faced pregnant women. We want to hear about something else.)
Well i think that was all i heard in the last few days. AT least those are the things i can think of. Here's the thing. you feel gross and ugly so talk to me about your life and your insecurities and maybe i will feel better. Its liek goin gup to a person with achne and saying so have you tried Pro-Active? Or asking someone who has no legs to go for a brisk jog with you. Either way my advisement is stay positive! Very positive things not negative at all!
Have a nice day
2 comments:
well I am positive that I love you &
I'm positive that you look beautiful no matter how crappy you feel or think you look ;o)
As I said before I think your belly is super sexy...and of course would love to match...soon enough... I love you especially in all your beautiful belly glory. =]
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